The Polyamorous Lifestyle

A checklist of sorts

• What is the definition of "love" in this relationship? If it's committed as I'm sure any polyperson reading this will say. What do you mean committed? Is it a life/death commitment. Their life or yours? Or is it on a different level. A I'll have you because I enjoy your company? Or on even another level. Let's be poly, not many around like us and hell we like each other anyway.
• When you go "all the way" what are the circumstances in this? Is it your feelings? The other's feelings? What exactly gives you the feeling? Want? Lust? Satisfaction or Gratification?
• How do you view other relationship styles compared to your poly lifestyle? Are the others too constricting? If they are constricting is it because you want to have "a lot" of lovers? If it's because you can have those chosen friends are you not worried that more friends will happen to come along your way and then change your values/views yet again? What's the end result of your relationship or is it just in the here-and-now?

Some honest questions I've found asking myself while i was in my last/first triad polyamorous relationship.